A Tragic Loss: Remembering Benjamin Jaillet
The CSBJ Rugby community is in mourning after the tragic death of Benjamin Jaillet, a beloved coach, mentor, and former player. At just 43 years old, Benjamin’s passing has left a gaping hole in the hearts of all who knew him. From his time on the field as a player to his later role as a coach, Benjamin’s life was devoted to rugby and to nurturing the young athletes who looked up to him.
Benjamin was more than just a coach; he was a pillar of support, a source of encouragement, and a father figure to countless players. A former Berjallian player himself, he carried the spirit of Bourgoin-Jallieu with him wherever he went. His journey in rugby was not just about playing the game, but about shaping the future of the sport by teaching and mentoring the next generation of players.
His deep love for rugby extended far beyond his playing days. After leaving the pitch, Benjamin returned to the CSBJ Rugby family, where he poured his heart into coaching the École de Rugby. He coached the U14 team last season and previously worked with the U12s, always demonstrating patience, enthusiasm, and dedication. Those who had the privilege of being coached by him will always remember his belief in their potential, and the positive impact he had on their development both as athletes and as individuals.
Legacy of Mentorship: Benjamin’s Impact on the Next Generation
As a coach, Benjamin was known for his unwavering dedication to his players. He saw each young athlete as more than just a team member—he saw them as future leaders, teammates, and individuals who could bring their best selves to every match and training session.
Benjamin’s legacy is evident in the success and confidence of the players he coached. His influence on the U14s and U12s was profound, with many of his players continuing to carry the torch in the rugby community. His ability to inspire and motivate came from his deep belief in the power of the sport to shape character, teach discipline, and create lasting friendships.
Even after the final whistle blew, Benjamin’s impact could be felt. He wasn’t just coaching players to win games; he was coaching them to embrace the values of teamwork, resilience, and loyalty—values he embodied in his own life. His legacy will live on in each young player who steps onto the field with the same heart, passion, and dedication that he taught them.
Remembering a Devoted Father and Friend
Benjamin was not just a coach to his players; he was also a devoted father to his three sons—Soan, Liam, and Noah—who follow in his footsteps as young rugby players themselves. His love for his children was unmatched, and his pride in watching them play was always evident. Though his time with them was cut short, his legacy as a father and role model will continue to shape their lives as they carry forward the lessons he imparted.
The entire CSBJ Rugby community extends their deepest condolences to Benjamin’s family, especially his sons, who will now grow up carrying their father’s legacy on and off the field. It’s impossible to replace the loss of such a presence, but it’s clear that Benjamin Jaillet’s spirit will forever live on in the hearts of his players, family, and friends. Every time a player takes the field with courage and passion, Benjamin’s memory will be honored.