A Bright Light Gone Too Soon: The Heartbreak of Losing Rian Carlsten
The Lawrence, Kansas community is grieving the unimaginable loss of Rian Carlsten, the cherished son of Jason and Casey Carlsten, who tragically passed away on Wednesday, November 26, 2025. Rian’s departure has left a deep ache in the hearts of all who knew him—a grief so heavy that words struggle to hold its weight. Born with a gentle spirit and a radiant smile, Rian brought laughter, comfort, and pure joy into every space he entered. His presence was a gift, one that brightened homes, classrooms, and friendships with an effortless warmth that made everyone around him feel seen and valued. Now, in the wake of his passing, the silence he leaves behind feels immeasurable.
Remembering a Soul Filled With Kindness, Laughter, and Endless Curiosity
Those closest to Rian describe him as loving, energetic, curious, and compassionate—a young soul whose heart was as big as his dreams. From an early age, he showed a tenderness and thoughtfulness far beyond his years, paired with a quick wit that could spark laughter in even the darkest moments. His passions were many: the outdoors, music, sports, and the simple joy of exploring the beauty of Kansas with friends and family. These moments—once ordinary—now form precious memories that loved ones hold tightly as they navigate their grief. Teachers, mentors, and peers remember Rian not only for his intelligence and creativity, but also for his rare ability to inspire others with kindness and authenticity. His smile, his humor, and the comfort he brought to others will forever echo in their hearts.
A Family’s Heartbreak and a Legacy That Continues Through Love
To Jason and Casey, Rian was not only a beloved son but also a best friend—a bright, joyful presence whose laughter filled their home and whose love shaped their world. His bond with his parents, siblings, and extended family was unwavering, overflowing with affection, gratitude, and the simple joys that make life meaningful. The depth of their grief reflects the extraordinary person Rian was: loving, empathetic, full of life, and endlessly cherished. Though his time on earth was heartbreakingly brief, his legacy endures in the love he gave, the joy he spread, and the countless lives he touched with his gentle nature. Friends and community members are encouraged to honor Rian by sharing stories, memories, and acts of kindness, keeping alive the spirit of compassion that defined him. Jason and Casey extend their deepest gratitude to the Lawrence community for the overwhelming support, condolences, and love given during this unimaginable time. Rian will be forever missed, yet forever remembered—his light living on in every heart he touched.